Being a woman in this world today, is so hard. Society as a whole, makes it so difficult for us women to be our true selves. Women makes it even harder for women to be them true selves..
Why do I say this? Well.. for one, we as women bring each other down too much, with petty comments or being too envious of each other.. well, it has been said numerous times that " put a bunch of guys in a room and they will become good friends real quick and easy, but putting a bunch of women in a room, will cause complete chaos "
WHY IS THIS?
Let's break it down..
women in general are really insecure, most of us hate to admit this to ourselves or out loud to anybody..
We hide behind our insecurity, by finding fault in other women.. we do this subconsciously though..
We find it difficult to compliment each other, or give credit, where credit is due.. why? Ladies, admit to yourselves that there was definitely a time or numerous times, you felt envious of another women.. go on, admit and say it loud.. !
We need to realize the difficulties in society today.. women gets body shamed or shamed for the type of hair they have or don't have.. Women are restricted in some areas and this one gets me real deep, the fact that there are women that has no voice..
Society makes women want to mold themselves into being a certain way, looking a certain way.. Making us feel like there is something wrong with being ourselves or being different.
You know, all my life I had issues with women, right through high school, girls hated me without knowing anything about me... I was bullied, dude.. I was hit once by a girl too for no apparent reason.. This issue affected me a lot and this was probably why I only had friends that were guys and two female friends for the most... Point is.. with all these odds against us.. we as women should unite and stand up for one another, by simply just..
Motivating each other.
Uplifting one another.
Be each other's biggest cheerleaders.
Supporting one another, and finding our voice by standing together to become GREAT!
So, call your girlfriends up and tell them how much you appreciate and support them and smile with the random lady at the grocery store or with the neighbor down the road..
Put your "resting Bitch face" in a safe and use it when it's necessary😊
Why do I say this? Well.. for one, we as women bring each other down too much, with petty comments or being too envious of each other.. well, it has been said numerous times that " put a bunch of guys in a room and they will become good friends real quick and easy, but putting a bunch of women in a room, will cause complete chaos "
WHY IS THIS?
Let's break it down..
women in general are really insecure, most of us hate to admit this to ourselves or out loud to anybody..
We hide behind our insecurity, by finding fault in other women.. we do this subconsciously though..
We find it difficult to compliment each other, or give credit, where credit is due.. why? Ladies, admit to yourselves that there was definitely a time or numerous times, you felt envious of another women.. go on, admit and say it loud.. !
We need to realize the difficulties in society today.. women gets body shamed or shamed for the type of hair they have or don't have.. Women are restricted in some areas and this one gets me real deep, the fact that there are women that has no voice..
Society makes women want to mold themselves into being a certain way, looking a certain way.. Making us feel like there is something wrong with being ourselves or being different.
You know, all my life I had issues with women, right through high school, girls hated me without knowing anything about me... I was bullied, dude.. I was hit once by a girl too for no apparent reason.. This issue affected me a lot and this was probably why I only had friends that were guys and two female friends for the most... Point is.. with all these odds against us.. we as women should unite and stand up for one another, by simply just..
Motivating each other.
Uplifting one another.
Be each other's biggest cheerleaders.
Supporting one another, and finding our voice by standing together to become GREAT!
So, call your girlfriends up and tell them how much you appreciate and support them and smile with the random lady at the grocery store or with the neighbor down the road..
Put your "resting Bitch face" in a safe and use it when it's necessary😊
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